“Too many young women I think are harder on themselves than circumstances warrant. They are too often selling themselves short. They too often take criticism personally instead of seriously. You should take criticism seriously because you might learn something, but you can’t let it crush you. You have to be resilient enough to keep moving forward, whatever the personal setbacks and even insults that come your way might be. That takes a sense of humor about yourself and others. Believe me, this is hard-won advice I’m putting forth. It’s not like you wake up and understand this. It’s a process.”
Hillary Clinton on how to handle criticism & other advice for young women, The Cut
“Simplicity, to me, has always been the essence of good taste.”
.our sunday part 1.
As pager ayu and bagus, we must dressed up like this. - for the first time in forever, mr.Man finally had to wore his *peci sunda + black leather sandals*. Look of how handsome he is.
4 couples, 4 beautiful girls and 4 charming boys gathered as a very happy helpful and good students to help her professor’s kid at the wedding reception.
There are plenty of drama before, but we made it after all. And here the pics.
Roses, and the flowers around were really pretty, soon, i want my party full of em. Ha ha. Soon.
Btw, i know, that our closest friends keep saying that we should get married soon, but, wait - no rush okai! Haha. Take it slow.
Hello youu. Is been pretty busy week since i’m the costume director for the easter celebration next sunday. Thank god i have great friends and Man to help me along.
It’s like, now, every friday i have two must do routivunes. First - go to mom’s salon and second meet this gorgeous mom to spend the afternoon. Hehe. And spend the evening with my super handsome man to supper. - i’ve got a lil bad cold btw- my head spins somehow. - get well soon for me-
As always, we talked about fashion,movies, satc, life , people who’s really annoying that we just want to block ‘em / her in the real life
- y’know ( yg suka copy2 gaya kami berdua terus jutek bgt orang nya gak pernah senyum kayaknya, never like my pics , abis itu nggak di tumblr gk di BIO instagram ngikut2 pake tanda panah gitu pake initial2 gitu , kalo gw nge post apa, tungguin aja, dia bakalan ngepost yg similar juga wkwkkw, - can i / we just blocked her? + the worst part is she wore paper bag from *well-known * brand as her actual bag. Oh so sad.
I know, as for me, i have to talked about this to my girlfriends - thank God again i have ka @Veisketirsa - we’re bitching around when we’re talking about that super bitch. ( sorry for the language :p) hope she read this and decide to get a life, and try to be a nice person and stop copying us/ me around. ! Yes it’s YOU!
Then saturday, KM day - me with my beautiful girls spend the afternoon picnicing - laying down on green grass , and enjoy the talk with fried bananas! Nyum.
The evening, finally we ( mr.man and i) can meet super cute and lovely baby shevaaa!! Just look at her and her stuffs. I just can’t get enough of her.
Btw i also add a perfect corner that i found from my tumblr friend, and that’s just super comfy and cozy.
And the last pic is today’s quote - ;)
Music Tuesday : now that i found you - michael bolton.
Great music, great lyric, and this song pretty much about me and mr.Man.
I don’t how if i live without you - is my favorite part.
Press play and enjoy!
Sometimes, I forget that I am young.
I forget that I have only been blessed with a quarter of a century.
I forget that mistakes are part of trying.
I forget that fear is motivation, not food for anxiety.
I forget that friendship takes kindness, and openness.
I need to forget those who have made me less kind and less open.
I forget the way a first kiss feels.
I forget to smile sometimes.
I forget what it’s like to be wooed, except by myself.
I forget that it’s better to woo yourself than to expect others to do it for you.
I forget how to give a genuine hug to someone other than my mother and my father. Because I’m fearful others won’t return it.
I forget the sound of my first boyfriend’s voice.
I forget to eat well.
I forget to make eye contact, retail has killed a friendlier version of myself.
I forget not to stand tall and act like I don’t care, because of how I was approached when I cared.
I forget that kindness and courage can go hand in hand.
I forget who I was when I was 19.
I forget what it looks like when someone wants to be your friend.
I forget because I remember that no one can change my life, only I can.
I remember these wonderful women who have looked me in the eye, and told me good, and kind words. Strong words.
I forget that each day is a blessing. That each day is what I make it. That each day belongs to me and me alone.
I forget. I’m going to forget forgetting and start remembering.
“He may love you. He probably does. He probably thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.”
It obvious! Just had this talk with mr.Man last Saturday after visited #babySheva , and this, is pretty much about the topic.
Funny when you just go out for years~maybe and you guys just haven’t named your relationship yet. - you crossed you heart for him, but, he’s doing nothing about it. ( waw, that’s just sad man!)
Instead of going public and say that *we’re in relationship* you/he choose to be in the grey zone -! Where neither you’re in the relationship or you just a *friend who is really close and may not have to looking for other people*
Waw, and i just realized that man just - y’know - he’s a jerk!
Wait for perfect moment? Oh please- you know the proverb say, you don’t wait for perfect moment! You create it!
2years ago Mr.Man and i made our decision to be In the Relationship - in the same ship that take us to our Creator destiny. Even tho, people keep saying that we weren’t ready or blah, - but look at us right now. We’re legal to holding hands, to have our pics - just the two of us publish on social media, to going home together every night - to hug him from his back to describe him on every pos/long text that i make, to let the world now that, he’s my Man.
You want him, but what now? Is he going to let you know that he wants you too? When? Later when you’re already in college? When he got his job? When he meets your parents and his parents? When he’s already settled? When he’s already went around the world? Or when he is ready? When is actually?
To say that you love him/her wont cost you anything, because that is the truth.
Instead of being in the no relationship or - just special friend - grey relationship, or in indonesian we called it Hubungan tanpa status, please just make your move.
Girls, if you one of those girl who in grey relationship right now, i hope you make up ur mind right now, no matter how bad and how madly you love him - i’m telling ya, for how long you gonna waiting for it happen?
It takes time and somewhat hurtful moment when you cant just introduce your *special friend * as your boyfriend. - can’t go in public as a couple who has goals in the future. To say i love you as much as you want he/she knows.
Make it official. - the storm won’t last forever.
You make your decision girls.
I’m Telling you now, - in the end, you’ll be end up hurting more. Trust me.
- random feeling i had this morning, didn’t mean to hurt anybody. Because i’m a girl to y’know - it take courage to change - to be what you really want.
Instead of dreaming about him and make all the codes that you want him - just try to make the talk. And make sure that you’re in the right way- the right track - on the same focus/dream.
Ask your creator more often,and you’ll find a way. He will help you. Believe me.
Because, girl, you’re precious and worth it to be with the Man who loves you back, wants you back, and wants to make you his. - in the real relationship zone. In His track.
.oh hello darling.
#whatiwore #sundayoutfits #musings
Hello fellas! Yuhu, it’s monday again, and you know as we called it monday because there are lots of things to be told about weekend. Ha ha.
Well, here i am, got my lazy monday because i get my a week-off caused my seniors are going to Bali.
Well, this, what i wore yesterday - my favorite pair of converse and short on sunny day.
Last Saturday, mr.man and i try to make a short - real short cover on instagram. And, we thougt we should do this more often. He has a really nice voice and great sense of music. And i can stay for hours just to listen to him. ;) lucky me.
Nike sneakers! - what i really want last weekend. Maybe someday - well i’m a sneakers head. Hehe
Keep moving forward and live,love,laugh everyday!
Wish you have a lovely Monday!
.people i adore. Jennifer Lawrence.
Jennifer Lawrence (born Jennifer Shrader Lawrence in Louisville, Kentucky on August 15 1990) is an American actress. She started out her career by playing leading roles in TBS’sThe Bill Engvall Show and in the independent films, The Burning Plain and Winter’s Bone, for which she received nominations for the Academy Award, Golden Globe Award, Satellite Award, and the Screen Actors Guild Award. At age 20, she became the second youngest actress ever to be nominated for the Academy Award for Best Actress. Jennifer is best known for playing Katniss Everdeen in The Hunger Games.
“You don’t want your relationship to be in the press, but at the same time, and this is only a theory, the more you try and keep it secret, the more the media tries to crack it open.”
“I couldn’t be happier about being a part of ‘Hunger Games’ and to play Katniss. I have a huge responsibility to the fans of this incredible book and I don’t take it lightly. I will give everything I have to these movies and to this role to make it worthy of Suzanne Collins’ masterpiece.”
that’s all about her life and her career lately, and i couldn’t be happier than to know that even though she’s kinda annoying and sassy / always feel awkward on stage - most of all on the oscar plus the Red carpet, but still, when i saw her of being the cover of September Issue - vogue last year and i thought, ah , this is great! she’s a girl on fire yet she’s super lovely.
i guess, she’s never failed the red carpet moment, all the dresses, the make up, even when she cuts her hair shortly earlier this year, but, i’m still a huge fans - even though i still love her long hair tho!
look at those pics above! isn’t she just super pretty? rite? lovely, lovely, lovely!
.Thursday musings. Part 2.
@khansakr asked us, if we want to drink and visit this place after we had a great lunch at nyi mistik, so we thought, why not? The sun shines perfectly so - another drink outside won’t hurt us, and she’s right, thia place is breathtaking!
ribkaocktora and her friends already visit this place a couple weeks ago, and i agree with her, this place is worth to visit.
When it comes to choose pics to show you about how great this place is, i’ve got confuse! - this place is amazing!
You can take tons of pics here!
Perfect to *waste* ur lovely afternoon ;)
Just search on google and voila, you can see the details about the foods and drinks here.
Hope you have a great weekend fellas!
.sunny Thursday. Part 1!
@NyiMistik - ciumbeuluit
The afternoon class was dismissed so, we ( @khansakr @sherlylouise and mr.Man ) decided to looking for some places to hang out and this place is perfect.
Mistik - mie and steak. They had the best ramen i guess, we all liked it. - taste good, very yummy! 15% off for students and college students! - the prices are round 7-20k only! You should visit this place sometime.
#whatiwore today - pretty simple as always - the sun kissed my hair and makes it looks good!
Part 2 - we chill at Koloni 108. Good place with unique decoration makes us believe that we’re at somewhere with beach- ha ha. Will up on my next post! Stay tune ;)
Btw, the selfies of me and @khansakr - hope you don’t mind :p
Music Thursday : ciara - Click and Flash
This song makes me believe that i’m a super model.
Sex and the city will always be my favorite serial tv show ever, and the movie is really dreamy. Makes me want to move to Nyc with mr.Man and have a really big closet!!
Press play, enjoy!!
.Day off - Nyoblos - avec les Garçons.
Because this tumblr is my *almost like* daily journal for me, so i hope you don’t mind if i was kinda like sharing my daily life. Hehe
Today, as the previous post, i said that today is my 3rd times for *nyoblos/give my vote* and as for mr.Man, this time is his first time. Haha.
So, pretty much about today is up on the pics above. ;)
First when i saw all the candidates, i thought, who is these people!! I don’t even now em,! Oh gosh help me.
But, 5 minutes for 5years - that’s all that matter- just give my vote, and be a good participant.
After *nyoblos* mr.Man had planned to see the Captain America with @adMelodyk and @bozzdavid at Empire 21 BIP, melody and mr.Man have to spend almost 30minutes caused of such along line - but guess what, we also watched that movie with our sensational Major of Bandung @ridwanKamil ! Ha ha.
The movie was awesome by the way. The marvel movies never failed me.
I also add #whatIWore today with my #newbalance kicks!
Btw happy bday kristen steward and leighton meester!!! My queens!!
Have a great night you guys ;)