Welcome ! As known as Debora Fenty, 20 years old, blessed, and kinda cool as ice cream , sweet as true love.
passion for fashion, writing and photography started on May 2012, and based on the love of thrift-hunting, i post my personal style, music videos, what i learned, fashion and some daily stuffs.Read, Enjoy , Share , Like, Comment, Follow ! :)
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photoshoot slash a short trip vacation from floating market lembang - taken by mr.Man @natebramwell.
when i think about how lucky i am to have mr.Man, i just can’t thankful enough, Even though every relationship has its ups and downs, successful couples have learned how to manage the bumps and keep their love life going. :)
i’ve learned that/ let me share it with you :D
1. you should praise your partner for the little things - because praise provides a reminder of your love :) - always say thank you, please and sorry, + i love you - our magic word :)
2. be thoughtful . the goods we do tends to come back to us.When you’re thoughtful to your partner, he or she’s more inclined to be thoughtful in return. :)
3. keep your promise :) - cuz failing to keep your promises can destroy your unity and trust in your relationship
4. share passion. The point is to show your partner what you love, so that he or she can experience it as you do (or close enough). To make this work, both of you have to be flexible. for example - he loves movie stuffs, comics , cars , politic stuffs, gadget , technologies stuffs, photography and to make it work i do still learn about it or at least support what’s he up to :)
5. discuss the big things in life . your dreams, your future job, your dream country to live in, your whole life long list, your dreamy wedding, dreamy houses, - pets, kids, money, family , friends, and of course the ex-s. you should open up with those things :)
6. manage your emotions. like joy, acceptance, fear, surprise, sadness, disgust, anger, and anticipation. Your emotions control you when you assume there’s only one way to react, but you always have a choice. Learn to avoid the cognitive distortions which make things look worse than they really are. Avoid negative ideas that come from feeling inadequate.
there are more lessons i’ve got and still learning from mr.man, and on the different level, i just want to spend the rest of my life with him. no matter how annoying he is, but, still - he’s the one. :)
ps: our 2nd anniversary is happening this month :D . - any ideas for anniversary gifts?
.fashion is what you buy, style is what you do with it.
nowadays there are tons of apps that provide you to access anything that you love/care about. Mine, is fashion. since i was little, mom taught me to dressed up well and appropriate of course, and i get older, have my own way, my own figure / role model / fashion interest , instagram become one of my fashion source to follow what is up on fashion world.
there are always plenty of dressed, bags, shoes, girly things that we really want to buy right? - on the other hand besides just scrolling ups and downs on the instagram feeds, i start to screen captured pics that i think it’s pretty or / relevant with what i really want/ needs right now or , can i just say, - my fashion HOT list. weekly i will share those thing with ya! :D
and here are some pics that amused me on instagram. is there any items that you really want to buy too?
ps : i still feel bad about leonardo dicaprio when he get snubbed and he lost his fifth oscar, ah well, he’s still the best tho, he he. poor him.
hi you all! how you doin’? it’s friday and cloudy- but, it’s friday after all :D i always excited about friday! you know why? because i can spend my morning with my mom at her salon :) - have a quality time with her, made my day. we talk about life, we share, we watch the news together, and stuffs, i’m so blessed. i love her, and just even prouder- and prouder everyday.
by the way, this - what i wore yesterday when i spend my lunch with mr.man at roti gempol. :D surprisingly , this place was empty, and i asked mr.man to took some quick pics. well, i just can’t get enough of my new sneakers. - my ” i’ll wear you everywhere sneakers” - looking forward to wear ‘em often - you’ll probably will see ‘em on some of my next post. he he.
- on other discussion , have you seen Chloe fall-winter 2014 collections yet? i’m in love with their boots, bags, knits, coats, ah well - everything about ‘em. - will up on my next post. :)
Cooking and baking hmm- what a dreamy talent that i really want to learn lately - one of my resolution since last year ha ha and one of my girl in our small group, kezia - she’s so talented, besides - such a master in piano, she’s also a great chef - i envy her lol. So, last Saturday we decided to bake some chocolate cake.
I know, i am the one who supposed to teach em, but, well, i can’t cook. - there i said it. But, since i date mr.man, and he’s great at cooking btw - almost anything - and those taste delicious, i have to push my inner feminism and learn how to cook.
I think, it’s a great start to finally learn and practice with the master. - even tho - kezia’s still learning either , but, i have to turns my cants into cans and dreams into plans, rite?
My point is - surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher . So you’ll be a better and greater person. :D
I’m so excited for our next cooking time. Soon, i hope i can share my diy cook and recipes to you. - real soon i guess.
.Secret Crush. My Favorite Fashion Items this week.
These are items that i really want ha ha. Well, fashion is all around you and my secret crush turns to these items. Fur, golden shoes,pointy black heels, black boots, orchid coats, black dress, black blazer, ahhh. Super cute.
Where to buy it? I don’t really know, but, maybe i’ll find the similar one ~ real soon.
Ps: i hope u dont mind, i add my throwback photoshoots pics from last november - unpublised and pic from last sunday with mr.man. my new *new balanced* friend - amused me soo.
well, well, last thursday when i was looking for shoes for baby sheva - not me, NOT ME!suddenlymr.Man’s friends offered me some new balance kicks, - first, oh really, gosh, these new balance were just trying to make my wallet unbalance, but, then, i bought it!!! ha ha.
i just can’t say no for this one, - okai, for now i’ll cut my atm card. - no , just kidding. ha ha.
it’s oke right? just this one, and i’m done buying shoes - said no women ever- ha ha.
and here, what i wore last sunday. - a lil bit mainstream, but, blaah, selfies #ootd won’t hurt anyway. ha ha.
A Late post from our KM gathering 6th anniversary last friday. I am so proud of my girls - narwastu a.k.a chara and kezia, they danced so.well they dressed up as sailormoon and minnie mouse. Ah so cute!! :D
Oh ya btw, jessica - also dressed up as a doctor. And last but not least #babysheva on her mini kebaya! freaking cute isn’t she? That day i just did lots of selfies pics with ‘em haha.
Last pics : me , sheva and mr.man - he dressed up as mr.steve jobs. We are such a very happy family rite? Haha :D
.February 2014. #tgif - thank god it’s February :)
What? Is it the last day on February? Oh gosh, time flies so fast rite? But, still i am super thankful about every details that God has made me through. The surprises, all the pleasant opportunities, ah, God is sooo good to me.
Well,well, here are the review about what i wore this month ;)
And yeup, i also add the candid pics i taken myself from this fabulous month. I guess it’s great to turn every great moment in ur life into pictures and yes i also share all the cool pics that amused me this month. Ha ha. So much internet to do, but, i didn’t forget to learn and save something, like, fashion,quotes, screen captured pics from instagram,tumblr, etc. :D
Are you ready for a new month? Say hello to March everybody!! It’s gonna be more awesome!
Music Wednesday : lady antebellum - dancing away with my heart.
This Acoustic/country song will always be my favorite song. The duet, just soooo lovely. I remember when the first time i saw mr.Man, when he was 18 - i was 17, and we danced, and then he becomes my everything and forever.
- for me you’ll always be 18, and beautiful, and always dancing in my heart.
This what i wore last Saturday as wedding singer. ;)
Well, mr.man always says to me, “no wonder, you’re always the prettiest girl in our band.” Haha.
Even though the theme of the wedding was turquoise, - sadly i didnt have any turquoise dress, and as the final choice, i guess, this creamy-gold-yelowy dress will do its best. Hehe. And yes, it did.
I hope you do find it cute too ;) - i bought this dress last year. Lol, and I think i need to buy some more - it’s not like i wear one dress for one event, but, you know the girls rite? We always have nothing to wear. Haha
btw, ( out of topic ) lately i was really just want to move to Paris as soon as possible :P please please - idk, i just want to go to paris, like, right now. Take me to paris, Anyone?
Oh february ;) - month of love- and young couple such as Rio and Ratna also celebrated their love on this month, and i was their wedding singer. - 3rd wedding for this month. Ha ha
A week before the wedding, we did the rehearsal to practice some new wedding playlist straight from the bride and groom. Falling slowly- Glen, Mine - petra , pada waktunya -ivan handojo,are my favorite songs.
I had so much fun, singing at this wedding with my new band, as always, i am the prettiest girl on my band. Ha ha. Oh ya, My new saxophone player was just super cool and very humble- reminds me to nicky manuputy- glenn fredly saxophone player.
Btw, I also took some candid pics from the turquoise wedding. Simple decoration, super, super delicious foods, - all you can eat.! Gosh. The pancakes and barbecue super deliciousooooo, my tummy was super full. ;) lucky me.
Ps: what i wore at the wedding will up on the next post ;) Happy monday!
for weeks, i’ve been thinking about dyed and changing my hair colour to black-brown-red hair ( read : anne hataway/alexa chung hair ) . well, i did some research about the colour, and still, i haven’t make the decision yet. still super nervous about it. black? brown?
what do you think? do i have to change my hair colour? haha, should i?
btw, one thing about this month, i love the issue of W magazine! so excited! - i can’t live a month without a magazine. ha ha. read ( super addicted to fashion magazine ).
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This what i wore last friday - when i was on duty as the Maid of honor. Haha.
I was thinking to wear my new leopard heels, but, naaahh , this nike sneakers are way more comfy than the heels. Ha ha.
Browny valentine Details : burberry coat, black/leopard dress, nike sneakers , fake rolex, And of course my bff - exsport bag :D
The weather was very beau, - not too hot or too cold, thank god ;)
Btw, One thing that i learned from my last valentines day, - everyday is valentines day, share your love everyday,everyminute, everysecond to all people that you care the most. - we dont have to wait until valentine to show ur love. ;) amen for this.